If we are never taught as youth to socialize we find it difficult to socialize as adults. Our animal instincts are so suppressed, we seldom have the drive to go beyond that “iron curtain” to socialize and get the treasure of friendship which I believe everyone is seeking.
If we are not brought up interacting with the world it is a very complicated feat to acquire. This is however imperative as we are social individuals or we prefer socialization as oppose to isolation.
So how could this skill be acquired? We can partake in discussions that interest us. This is beneficial because then we have a commonality with the group. We could also go to events that interest us.
Socialization is an aspect which does not become easier with experiences. However if you are in a social group, it is easier then when you are alone. This is because of your unified interest which leads to conversing. This unified interest makes it a whole lot easier to socialize because you have a frame of reference of which to launch the conversation. The struggle of socialization will never decrease unless we change the foundation of the society which we live.
Yeremiah Hardt
Yeremiah@aol.com
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